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Valuable MUST KNOW lessons while selling dirty panties

Posted on September 26, 2022September 22, 2022 by queenava

Welcome back. In today’s post, I will talk about valuable skills and lessons I have learned over the years while selling dirty panties. I have sold my used panties and digital fetish items for over seven years. My used panties business has been full of ups, downs, and invaluable experiences. Here are some things I wish I had known before I got started.

Personality matters

During the early years of my career, I did not let my personality shine through enough. I was all about sales. My profile descriptions were bare, I was absent on social media, and I was standoffish with customers whose first message didn’t indicate they wanted to buy. I missed numerous potential sales because I was unwilling to see the bigger picture. 

My evolution into becoming a more personable seller happened gradually. I can not pinpoint a particular day when I woke up and said, “I want to be more personable with my customers.” As I have aged and matured, I have started to take my business more seriously. I started investing more time, finances, and effort.

Putting elements in my profile that would help buyers know more than “I sell panties.” I considered what made me stand out from other sellers and used it to my advantage. I included a list of my hobbies (hiking, traveling, 420, and web design). I wrote relevant details I didn’t mention before, like not shaving and being “all natural.”

My orders increased when I beefed up my profile. Fans were interested in ordering items like hiked-in panties and videos of me smoking. Guys were starting to purchase more than just panties from me, and I was enjoying fulfilling their orders. I was gaining more repeat customers with who I shared similar interests. Some of them are now my great friends.

Let potential buyers know that you are more than just a panty seller. They want more than panties. They want an experience. 

Set consistent boundaries 

It is essential all entrepreneurs set firm boundaries and stick to them. As a newer seller, I had “boundaries,” but I often deviated from them to secure a sale. I would do things like agree to offer a fetish I did not feel comfortable with for an extra fee or lower my price for a buyer who felt compelled to haggle.

The payment notification of securing a sale would always excite me, but the happy feelings often did not last long when I compromised my boundaries. Typically the clients asking me to do stuff I clearly said I did not offer would:

1)Not become a repeat customer

2)Be rude/unappreciative of my services

3)Make me feel unfulfilled at the end of the service 

I stopped compromising my values cold turkey after doing some soul searching. I asked myself what type of client I wanted to attract. My ideal client was someone with similar interests. They were kind, loyal, and generous. Kind customers don’t ask you to compromise your values and engage in price haggling. Full stop.

Invest

I started investing in my business more as I gained confidence. I was initially reluctant to spend money on my business or try to learn new skills to improve my craft because I was scared it would not pay off. My hesitation to make these investments cost me hundreds of sales. 

I wish I had taken the time to read more books, listen to more podcasts, and connect with more sellers when I was a younger model. Education, marketing research, and investing in networking and making friends are all things that I just recently started doing in the last five years of my career. I was an introverted, unconfident model for the first five years of my career!

Entrepreneurs must constantly be researching their craft to be successful. Finetuning your business should be a part of your regular business routine. Never stay stagnant. Models deserve to have other friends who are models. If you needed a sign to invest in yourself, this is it. 

Make sure you check out my free master guide for selling used panties if you need more tips! I also have an e-book!

Peace, Love, and Dirty Gussets,

QueenUsedPanties (Queen Ava)

Absolute Gold

Rated 5 out of 5
August 23, 2022

I would pay damn near ANYTHING to learn the things I’ve learned from you. Adding you this past year has given me an experience I’ve literally never found anywhere else . Not to say I haven’t had or don’t have other great coaches. You’ve just been the easiest and most up front to talk to and I love that. I mean that may have a lot to do with the fact I think we are genuine friends but i’ve seen that in your work outside of your dealings with me exclusively. I know it’s your personality. All these absolute G O L D that you drop on the daily has carried me as far as I’ve come and it has been irreplaceable and crucial to my survival skills. and more than ever here in 2021and 2022. Thanks girl ♥️♥️♥️♥️

TheMackenzieJames

There is something for everyone

Rated 5 out of 5
August 23, 2022

I am a part time panty seller and I have been for over a year now. I don’t always tend to be online as much as I’d like to, but don’t let that stop you! All of Queen Ava’s classes work! All you have to do is pay attention, be patient, and stay consistent! I love all of her material but I’d definitely say that my top favorite topics are Branding. I also booked a mentoring session on selling on FetLife and made my first sale within a week! I know I will be making many more sales, all thanks to Queen Ava and her class.

After completing the branding course, I have finally been able to make a great profile description, I am no longer tempted to change it every couple of weeks. I have learned how to take better photos on a budget and catch buyer’s attention!

I recommend all SERIOUS sellers to take her course, whether you’re new, part-time, or even a veteran sex worker, there’s something for everyone here!

MommyWetPanties

Incredible Resource

Rated 5 out of 5
August 22, 2022

As a new seller, I came across this group, and I have to say it is really an incredible resource, especially for the price. It can be intimidating and lonely as a new seller. I can’t say how much more confident I feel now that I have this group of experienced sellers to guide me. I’m grateful for the community she has created. (And her patience as I figure out Discord 😂

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